I talked recently with Darkenaz, and I would like to give out some thoughts that came from it 😉
The Fae kind is like cruel children. They are like those kids who are plucking legs from insects, watching them squirm. And it doesn’t matter how old they are, it’s their trait.
Fae simply love to play.
They want their victims be able to endure their fun for long time. They will not offer them death in pain only; they will prolong the game. They like to doze the suffering, so the toys were not destroyed too early.
Of course they are capable of very cruel acts. Some of the games are really cruel. But mostly they love to pull tendons from their toys hands and feet – metaphorically – and order them to dance.
Fae are not serious, harsh species. They are playful but in a wrong way. They like when their enchantment confuses humans, when they slowly lose head among beautiful atrocities.